In his melodramatic acting the abuser will always blames everything. Everything is your fault. Your opinion does not count because according to him (or her) just say nonsense and make you feel stupid making fun of your inability to understand them.
-Elen ... Damn ...! I'm talking seriously ... Do not give me nonsense. That is something important to me. That to me is life ... Elen ... What you do not understand? Do not you realize? Do you know how bad it makes me feel?
- You can take this more seriously fuck? That I need your support! Or do not you see?
- Elen I love you ... Do not you see? ... You're not seeing ... is that you learn! And you will realize and when you find out will later.
If there is a crutch that I hate are like: - "Do you understand? You know? Do you understand me? "- It's like being thrown into your face as you are clumsy and insecure people is typical of seeking approval. Such phrases what transpires is something like: - Did you hear stupid or do I have to repeat more slowly?
Miguel every few minutes telling me - I do not understand! You're missing! Do you understand me? Are you listening? Do you not see it reasonable? Do not you see it better? pearls and other groups.
Miguel started very slowly as if he does not want the thing to get sentences like this, until it became more and more common in their vocabulary and was even expanding them with phrases like: Do not think ...! You have no brain ...! You're missing ...! You're a brat! Who sleeps with girls girls get up!.
came a point that I said them several times a day. I was pissed with him said he had no right to talk like that. He shielded that if I was not foolish, for he was sure it was smart, I would have to catch me wrong, because it was only a way of speaking without importance, it was a matter of nerves, it was stupid that I take it the wrong way, because he really thought so.
On one occasion I even echo the face to me was really hard to talk, not listen to him and that I take seriously what I said. This was not only evidence that it was a brat.
approached me that day: - We need to talk ...! - Another of his famous phrases after which he kept eternal silences, as if the thing were a matter of the highest international and feared secret spy us. As noted by Pindar: "Often what that print is silent over what is said "
We sat on the terrace and began to complain: - Elen I'm really bad at work and I think I'll leave it ... What do you think ... ?
That's because as I took the decision this would be done and if it was wrong to blame would be all mine. Then I let out a humorous grace on the subject in question, I can not remember which, and he exploded: - See how it's impossible to talk to you ... Sure as you do not take anything seriously ...! And then you complain that you call to see Elen brat ... Can you be at you have to be ...? Can you be by what I say? Or do not you come into your head that I'm really bad at work and I need support, they need to hear me and give me a solution ...? Elen never hear what I say ...! That shit always loose Why do not you talk like a normal person ...? Why do not you take the issues seriously? Elen I'm really bad and you let me go by ... Elen to see if you learn to think ... Damn ... it's not that hard! I come home knackered and do not receive your support. Elen we're a couple and do not look ... I can not talk to you! Do not you hear! Not hear me ...! You know how lonely that makes me feel that ...? Do you know how I feel? Elen to see if mature please, I can not go on like this ... I need a partner, I need you to think like an adult that I can sink, I'm bad, I get nothing good that a pillared depression go on and you can not tell ... Elen I need a partner not a brat.
VOMITING WHENEVER GOD KILLS A KITTEN
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